During the heat of the moment it's all too easy to say something you regret later. But it can be taken back - if you don't leave it too long to do so.
Lying and keeping a secret are usually more destructive than owning up to your feelings. Honesty really is the best policy.
After an argument, leave it a day or so before apologising. Listen (with your own defenses down) to the person you have upset without interrupting and try to see it from their point of view. Though you don't want to be a pushover, you do need to value the other person's opinion.
And if your relationship is worth keeping, then in time, you will both overcome the difference between you.
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Kirstie Gillon-Wood is Director of 90 Degree Coaching Ltd., a company devoted to supporting women wanting to create independence, and achieve personal and professional success. You can learn more about Kirstie’s products and services at http://www.90degreecoaching.co.nz.
Mums, I know you are striving for MORE in your life, but you're not able to put your finger on exactly what it is you are looking for. Or maybe you know what you want, but don't know how to get there. Or you know how to get there but lack the belief in yourself. Together we will get you there. Here (on this blog) and now is a good place to start. I hope in reading this, you feel validated, understood, supported and encouraged. I'm sure you are a fabulous Mum.
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